After Paying Lady’s Fees Through School, Woman Refuses To Support Him in Marriage

CURSORY: A man who paid for his wife’s fees in school divorced her after finding out she doesn’t want to support in the running of the family

A man who works in an oil company has divorced his wife because she refused to financially contribute to the running of their house.

The story was shared on X by a user named @budgetOdogwu, according to him, when the couple got married, the man was working at a bank while his wife was a student in school, studying Nursing.

Even after the couple got married and welcomed their twins, the man was still the only one taking care of all the family needs. It was also stated in the post that during his wife’s university days, the man was the one who sponsored her, and also had a business set up for her.

The couple started having issues in their marriage when the husband noticed that his wife wasn’t ready in any way at all to contribute financially to the welfare of the family.

The post read: “All the money used was from his single salary at Shell. This man talked about it for a while how she didn’t even bother bringing anything home and she retorted that he was a Shell worker and he shouldn’t have married her if he couldn’t take care of her.

“This egbon never forgot those words…” After his wife’s statement, the man began secretly acquiring properties and eventually built two houses before he filed for a divorce.

SEE HIS TWEET BELOW :

An Egbon got married when he started work at First Bank . His wife was doing her nursing rounds at Nursing School PH . Everything financial was on this man . When she finished , she had twins . God was merciful and he got promoted . https://t.co/51limUA1IK
— ‘nyerishi eli woji esq. (@budgetOdogwu) January 22, 2024

VIEW SOME REACTIONS BELOW

@Gunnerslegacy said: “You are absolutely right. When the man is the only one doing all in the house, it’s not right. I am facing the same issue but this time, not that my wife doesn’t want to work, we haven’t seen work for her. So she is now learning how tomake hair. Hopefully, we will be better.”

@hachinwhummyy said: “My gf was into salary jobs that didn’t remain much at the end of the month, I told her to go and learn handwork, if she refused pere ni, that would have been the end of our relationship, I can’t chest all the expenses alone edakun.”

@Dapostweet said: “Marriage is ideally a union where two folks merge in understanding, goals, teachings, & purpose. “It seems plausible that the “egbon” had discussions on these matters during their dating period.

Based on this thread, it appears the wife didn’t fulfill the role of a “helpmate.”

@rappo_oosa said: “I will forever respect my wife on this!!! Things hasn’t really been good for me for a while now and my wife has been the one supporting me from the proceeds she makes from her business. I do not praise her in her presence but I will forever respect her. Her presence is godsend.

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